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He was not necessarily rejecting me; he was doing the most self-honoring thing for himself and did me a HUGE favor.
Granted, at the time it did not necessarily feel that way.
From not getting a call back after what you thought was a great first date, to not getting the job you thought you were perfect for, rejection triggers a dangerous dose of self-doubt. Often it is during the twenty-something years that one experiences a big rejection for the first time, such as getting dumped or being laid off.
No matter what the size or severity, rejection is one of the biggest challenges to self-love.
This is why I say that external rejection is “perceived” rather than being real.
The truth is that no one and nothing can truly reject you.
Perhaps you’ve heard the phrase, “Rejection is God’s protection.” I believe this to be true, but like most clichés when recited to us in the midst of a big blow, it may sound more annoying than immediately comforting.People often have their own reasons for why they don’t behave in a way that you would categorize as accepting you or giving you what you want. But don’t just take my words for it; reject any resistance and accept these truths for yourself!And certain situations that trigger feelings of rejection are often based on so many external factors that, once again, have zero to do with anything you did or did not do. Love, Christine # # # Christine Hassler is a certifed life and quarterlife coach. The only way to truly be rejected is when you deny yourself of your own love, forgiveness and acceptance. Like I mentioned earlier, we often draw in external events that feel like perceived rejection because our Higher Self is mirroring what we are doing inside ourselves.